Once you are ready to go on a dating site for the disabled, you will need to make a profile. Typically you may think of it just as a form to be filled up. But actually it is your first contact with the person of your dreams. In case you do not pay attention here, you may simply miss a chance to meet that person. This means that it is an important piece of document!
It is so tempting to fill in all good adjectives when you are making your profile. After all, it is so great to call yourself a gorgeous, bubbly, witty and a beautiful person. But are you really all this? Do note that you are looking for a long term thing here. After all, you may end up meeting another person and then the reality will come out. Consider the embarrassment then! Rather than giving all wrong details, be factual. Say that you are a shy person who does not make friends easily. This may put off some people but you will impress others with your honesty. Besides, no one is perfect. You too are like that, but at least you know what your weaknesses and are not afraid to admit them. This is known as being brave!
Upload A Good Photo
You need to upload a real photo of you. Make sure that it resembles you. It would be wonderful if it makes you look attractive. But that does not mean that you make use of photoshop or any other such software. Do note that you may be meeting the other person at some point of time. If the photo makes you look more attractive than you actually are, it will lead to disappointment. Also, try to have a smiling photo. There is nothing like a smile to make you look attractive. Have a recent photo of yours. Even if it includes your wheelchair or crutches, let it be. This is a part of your life. There is no need to shy away from it! If your photo makes you look less attractive than what you are, even that is not a good idea.
Tell The Unique Things About Yourself
Do not have a generic profile. Say unique things about yourself. Do note that you are a unique person. Perhaps you are an amazing multi-tasker or an amazing sculptor. Talk about this in your profile. Or talk about the book you are reading presently. Make others interested in you. In fact, these little details about you can be a conversation starter too when you meet someone on these online dating sites!
Never Hide Your Disability
You are comfortable with your disability. Let your profile say so loud and clear. Do not overload your profile with details but let others come to know that you are comfortable with your limitations.
Your profile must stand out if you wish to have more people chatting as well as interacting with you!